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  • Writer's pictureSophie Frabotta

5 Ways to Attract Extraordinary Things To Your Life

If you follow these five ways to adjust your attitude, you will see that your world will transform and manifest in a extraordinary way! First, let me say that everything that you want and desire in your life has a meaning. No matter how big or small, or silly or serious it is, this desire has come into your consciousness for a reason.

I believe all your personal desires are inclinations or little whispers from The Divine that arise to assist you on completing all your unique tasks in this life here on Earth.

I invite you to begin by paying attention to your mindset. Tune in and look at what thoughts you spend your time inside of. What are you thinking about, dwelling on, dreaming of? This first step is to just help you observe how you are spending your mental energy. Next, follow these five tips to adjust your attitude, and watch your world will transform.

1. Focus on what you WANT

When you focus on what you want over what you don’t want, your conscious mind begins to notice those very things. For example, have you ever bought a specific car and then noticed that car everywhere you go? Well, was there a huge shipment of that specific car in your area? Probably not. What changed was your perspective and what you are NOW noticing. When you focus your attention on what you want, you will begin to notice that vibration everywhere you go.

2. Understand: I Become what I Believe

For example, “I don't have enough time or money”, sends poison down through your energetic system and the instructions your mind hears are clear, “only notice scarcity. Brain only pick up on how money feels tight, and how things are out of my reach." However, when you transform this thought into, “I always have enough" the mind unlocks everything in your command center to make this become your reality. The mind begins say, “Do you hear that, it’s time for abundance!” Then you begin to notice things that fill you up. Now this can take time to re-pattern and reprogram, but consistency and practice will pay you off big time!

3. Act as if it has already happened

Think about what you truly desire for your life. Write it down, journal about how your life would look and feel with these desires manifesting. Act, dress, speak, talk and walk in this vision like it has already happened. Really focus your minds eye (eyes closed) on that feeling of being inside of it. See it, believe it can happen for you, marinate yourself in it. This will take some work and commitment, but the reward will make it all worth it.

4. Use Positive Affirmations

Affirmations are short, powerful statements that allow you to consciously be in control of your current thought. Here at Awaken we call affirmations "reprogrammings", but for the sake of quick understanding, I will use the more generalized term here, affirmations. Thinking is like driving and your current road map (your thoughts) may have you in some bad neighborhoods. The use of affirmations is like paving new roads in your mind and helps your brain understand where you want to go. For example, “Every day I discover new ways to improve my life.” “Great money-generating ideas come to my attention every day.” Say these affirmations with repetition and watch what begins to manifest.

5. Believe it and then you will see it

“Build it and they will come.” Do you remember that line from the famous movie Field of Dreams? Faith is the step before fact, and it is in our belief that we access faith. It requires faith to manifest and believing it will happen before you see any results will strengthen your ability to manifest. So believe in what you want, feel it with intention, and know that when the time is right it will show up! Use these five steps to bring your desires into your reality. Remember, you have to let the real desire come to the surface, feel the feeling of the desire already manifested, plant that frequency in your mind, water it with affirmations, and believe it is on its way. This process will allow your desires to take root and grow into a beautiful reality!

When your attitude is in line with your positive beliefs you can begin to manifest your dreams!

I can teach you over 50 tools + techniques that will take your manifesting to the next level. But this is not your run of the mill manifesting work. This is deep spiritual healing work that comes before we manifest to work out your deeper issues, get you feeling more confident and empowered, so that when we teach you our magical 12 step to manifest formula, you energetics are ready to receive the desire.

You can learn more about this in our spiritual awakening program, where we peel back the layers to help you create and manifest your dream life!

Spiritual healing is a fundamental part to being able to manifest you deeper desires. This is the authentic practice that will help you create a new beginning and manifest your dream life. Understanding how each step then builds on the next is what will transform your perspectives and help you manifest extraordinary things. If you need more support on your spiritual healing journey, I am here for you!

By Sophie Frabotta, MA

Author, Certified Spiritual Life Coach, Healer

Hi! I am Sophie Frabotta, The Soul Whisperer, author, spiritual coach, guide and mentor and the founder of the Awaken Collective, where I help women like YOU to step into your heart and turn your wounds into freedom! I don't just teach you about this spiritual healing work, I teach you how to deeply heal the root wounds that have been holding you back, so that you can finally experience this inner freedom that only comes from walking this spiritual healing path. My spiritual awakening program will help you to move far beyond where you are now and wake up a part of yourself you have been dreaming to become. Your time is now!

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