The Spiritual Root of Playing Big

Playing small comes from the wound of unworthiness; playing big is the result of healing that wound. Once you have crossed that threshold, you then come into your true presence. You drop perfection and know that your worth comes from an eternal connection to your soul and the Divine.

Once you make this leap into this new territory, everything changes. You no longer see yourself as needing recognition or approval, as that well is now filled from within. 

There is a deep remembrance that begins to emerge that leads you into a different frequency and alignment. It is here where you fully embody your own divinity. And I must say, this is not a space of perfection; you do not need to have it all figured out to arrive, you just need to be in a space that is open to the flow of your truth. 

If you’ve ever doubted or dimmed your light to fit in, let this article be your anchor into a new river.

As I was coming out of my own unworthiness wound and into my truth here are four truths I uncovered (that I had forgotten) that my soul quickly remembered and embodied on the path of "playing bigger".

1. Celebrate Your BEING-NESS 

You are not a human doing, but rather a human being.

You are not the sum of your achievements, but rather the essence that flows through each choice that creates inspired action. Somewhere deep down, you’ve always known that your worth is intrinsic. And in there, deep down, you will also find a treasure chest of love. Because you are love. You emanate love through your presence, your energy, and your being-ness.

And this needs to be celebrated. 

✨Playing big begins when you let yourself be enough without having to prove anything.

2. You Embody Belonging

Just as you prepare to leap and expand into your next level, you may shrink back into old patterns - and that is ok. A part of your past may still feel more comfortable being left out than fitting in (to yourself.)

But deep down there is also this voice that says “You were made for this.” “You absolutely belong here.” And that is the voice you need to listen to. You can train yourself to stay in this higher vibration and that new space becomes your new frequency. 

Your higher self already lives in this new Era of you, you finally can see through the veil and know you are having a homecoming.

✨Playing big means remembering that you belong in every room your consciousness brings you in to.

3. Your Originality is Sacred 

You begin to see so clearly that comparison was never the way and it begins to dissolve before your very eyes. Instead of measuring yourself against others, you now step into your uniqueness and see it as sacred.

Your journey has now led you to understand that who you are is more than enough, and that your path can’t be duplicated because it’s divinely yours.

 ✨Playing big happens when you stop measuring and start owning your own vibration.

4. Your Imperfections Become Love Points

You have healed the need for perfection and earning love, and now know that love just is. It is not earned, because you are already a carrier of it. The messiness you experienced as human becomes clear and turns into your divine map into loving yourself in a whole new way.

When you look at the parts of you that you once rejected, you can see into the portals of self-love - and that is how your imperfections become love points.

✨Playing big is knowing that your authentic essence is more powerful than perfection.

Your Big-ness Is Your Birthright

Playing big isn’t about forcing yourself into the world, it’s about letting the truth of who you are vibrate to the surface, where you just know "I am." 

The root of playing big is a sacred remembrance of knowing your soul came here for a reason. That your light and your specific energy has an important role to play in the New Earth.

Ready to Turn Your Healing Into Your Calling?

It is time for you to stop playing small, because I know you know, you are here for bigger things. I invite you to cross this threshold, come into your true presence, and drop perfection in our Spiritual Life Coaching Certification. This is a sacred invitation into your purpose to heal at the spiritual root, awaken your gifts, and learn how to guide others through deep, transformational change. You can learn more here. 

When you know that your worth comes from an eternal connection to your soul and the Divine, your entire reality begins to shift.

So do you believe it is time for you to start playing Big?

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UNLOCK YOUR HEALING

With Light,

Sophie Frabotta, M.A.

Author, Certified Spiritual Life Coach, Healer

Hi! I am Sophie Frabotta. I am a heart-centered, soul leader who is so honored to be doing this work. With over 10,000 hours of 1-1 experience, a leader in the field of Spiritual Life Coaching, and a Globally recognized Spiritual Life Coach Certification – I teach students the depth of real transformation in a way that most have never seen. Having transformed my own body, mind and spirit, I am honored to take you into your inner chamber, show you how to lift out of karmic soul wounds and stabilize your higher vibration in 5D.