Here is what I believe: most people work on their coping skills without ever finding the root wound, which is actually running their whole life in the background, while bypassing the deeper cause.  But you cannot quantum leap your way into this kind of lasting transformation without passing through the shadows of your hidden wounds. (If you want your changes to stick - that is.) 

If you are on the self-healing and spiritual awakening path you will have to let go of the need to be liked. I want you to know that other people not liking you is not the worst thing, in fact, it can be a sign of some awesome growth and progress.

Here are some tips on how to bring this spiritual love into your heart, during the hard times.