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  • Writer's pictureSophie Frabotta

Have You Experienced a Shattering Moment?

Have you recently had something in your world collapse without any proper or logical reasoning as to why? Or maybe even had a falling out and it was almost as if you are speaking a different language than who may be involved.

This is what I call a shattering moment.

A shattering is when something in your life collapses to create space for something new. This is rarely convenient and can feel quite awful, but it comes with a huge opportunity. See not everyone gets these shattering moments that blow us wide open. Some have chosen a more gentle path, so they move through life differently.

I, on the other hand choose a different box on the life application. I checked the box to let the Universe blast me wide opening when I wasn't listening, I checked the box to have things pulled from beneath me to get my attention. And now I walk that path.

It has almost been like there is a spot light on me and I have been able to see many things standing in my way, like my people pleasing winning over standing in my truth.

I have found that having a guide will lead you deeper than you have gone before, and rapidly helps your soul expand and evolve.

If you have had a recent shattering moment, It’s ok. I have too. When my entire table of sound bowls fell to the ground and 7 of 10 bowls shattered into tiny pieces, I was in shock (at first.)

But several moments after that initial moment of saying, “I can’t believe this.” I started to believe it and could see this beam of light enter the room.

Within that light, I knew I was being assisted into something bigger. Something I couldn’t even see before the shattering.

I knew my sound bowls had become stagnant and I had outgrown them, but I would have never been able to see how to step into this new space without this shattering moment.

I would have never thought, work with your favorite sound healer to help you rebuild your collection, gather different bowls made from intentional artists from around the world and redefine how you will use this medicine going forward.

I needed the shattering moment to get me into this new place.

I have been rebuilding my collection this summer and I am so excited to continue to witness how this shattering moment is opening me up to a whole new world!

I tell you this story to remind you, sometimes things need to shatter to make space for something even bigger than what you couldn’t see before.

If you have gone through a shattering, hang in there. Something great is on its way to you. Maybe not immediately, but it is on its way.

As I have been rebuilding my sound bowl collection (even that beautiful angel aura chalice in the picture above shattered) I have learned so many things about myself. It has almost been like there is a spot light on me and I have been able to seen my people pleasing ways over standing in my truth. My bowls have had so much to teach me, and the lessons continue.

So wherever you are on your path. Do not give up, keep going and seeking deeper guidance. If you need assistance to make more sense of what you are experiencing, reach out to a coach, mentor or guide of some sort to help you find your way. I have found that having a guide lead you deeper than you have gone before, rapidly helps your soul expand and evolve.

If you are looking to dive deeper into your shattering and really want to learn how to heal, I can help. What took me 20 years to learn, I can show you in 5 months. If you’ve been feeling this constant calling in your mind, body, and soul to do, be, and offer MORE with your spiritual journey, but just don’t know where to start or what to do first, I invite you to explore our programs.

There are two places you can start, building a Sacred Morning Routine called the Sacred Morning, or embarking on the spiritual path to become a certified Spiritual Life Coach. Either of these paths will be helpful for you to Awaken, deeply heal​, and activate you​r ancient codes embedded in your body so you can AWAKEN Your full potential in this lifetime!

So please know, what ever has shattered in your world, can heal. YOU have the power to transform and heal ​anything that is blocking you. Your true power lives within and you were given an enormous amount of power to create your dream life. You are so deeply loved by the Universe, and when you do the deep spiritual healing work and practice self-love you activate your ancient code of true acceptance.

By Sophie Frabotta, MA

Author, Certified Spiritual Life Coach, Healer

Hi! I am Sophie Frabotta, The Soul Whisperer, author, Spiritual Healer + Mentor and the founder of the Awaken Collective. I help YOU to step into your heart and turn your wounds into freedom! I don't just teach you about this spiritual healing work, I teach you HOW to deeply heal the root wounds that have been holding you back, so that you can finally experience this inner freedom that only comes from doing this spiritual healing work. My programs will help you to move far beyond where you are now and wake up a part of yourself you have been dreaming to become. Your time is now!

You can learn more about our certification program here.

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